And more importantly, why are so many men and women these days interested in naturally free-flowing ways of attracting the opposite sex? Once the other person feels uncertain about him or herself, they are susceptible to any kind of exploitation. This disenchanted interpretation of the art of seduction does not create attraction. If anything, it makes the opposite sex more suspicious of your intentions and more resistant to your advances. Given the fact that exploitative seduction has impregnated our society, should we throw up our hands and give up?
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If you purchased your copy from a non-authorised point of sale, contact the website you purchased the e-book from and request a refund. She studies it, knows it by heart, and with her own person, adds to it. The Seduction Game The very thing we seek—friendship, love, companionship, and a lasting relationship—can be undermined by the means we employ to obtain it.
It Takes Two to Tango 14 Some people are just not fit for reciprocal seduction. The Dance of Emotional Attraction 43 The one who gets to keep the man or woman is the one who offers more than visual appeal. Get the real scope on becoming emotionally attractive.
Reprogramming Your Sexual Code 63 You could be generating too much or too little sexual energy and it is affecting how you come across to the opposite sex. Learn what you can do about it. Sexing the Body 72 Teach your body to exude an inner as well as outer physical presence that has character, vitality, mystery, and sex appeal.
More than What Meets the Eye 97 Do more than catch his or her eye, catch the whole person by learning how to speak or converse with the eyes as you do with speech! Change How You Say It, Change the Chemistry Talking is an important part of the art of seduction, not so much for the words that are said, but for the intimacy that conversation brings. Learn the five fascinating ways of sparking it off. Turning Up the Heat People love those who can artfully string them along while keeping them entertained, amused, fascinated, and anticipating.
Here is how you work this magic. Keeping in Touch Should you initiate touch? How do you know when to touch, where to touch, how to touch, and how often to touch? Some are informative, a few are practical, but most are at best ineffective and at worst counter-productive.
This book is different. The principles and insights in this book are unlike any traditional dating advice that you get from the mainstream media or dating websites. I am more interested in helping you create powerful attraction—created by both together. By getting you more involved in the process, you will gain a greater appreciation of your own perceptions—why you act the way you do, and why things happen as they do.
With increased knowledge of your own behaviour and that of others, you will prepare yourself for and give yourself the permission to really celebrate with yourself and with others the power and beauty of what you have inside. Take the moment—a piece of forever—and really live it! And more importantly, why are so many men and women these days interested in naturally free-flowing ways of attracting the opposite sex?
Once the other person feels uncertain about him or herself, they are susceptible to any kind of exploitation. This disenchanted interpretation of the art of seduction does not create attraction.
If anything, it makes the opposite sex more suspicious of your intentions and more resistant to your advances. Given the fact that exploitative seduction has impregnated our society, should we throw up our hands and give up? Certainly not! This upbeat and on-target book will show you a different side to the art of seduction— one that is a friendly and pleasurable precursor to a lifetime of love, trust, compatibility, passionate intimacy and happiness with another person. Until now, the real secrets of this ancient art have been buried in obscure journals full of academic jargon and footnotes.
In fact, so powerful is this knowledge that the ancients were convinced it was the secret of youth, health, and vitality. Any man or woman who wants to be in a relationship with these males or females has to brush up on how to be a good lover or spouse in order to keep them interested. Now you too can learn how to make yourself interesting, intriguing, and irresistible. Part of your appeal is your own individual energy—what the French call esprit.
This is your most powerful seduction tool. In this book I will show you how to empower yourself to live out your essence— reclaiming what is real about you and re-creating your own identity, one that meets your needs and protects your personal boundaries.
Preparation is important to you. It significantly affects your chances of succeeding or failing in the use of this powerful medium. In fact, the first half of the book is focused on how to prepare you for the art of seduction—and for a meaningful relationship. Some of the advantage-gaining qualities you will naturally cultivate using the principles in this book include: 1.
Self-assured confidence: This is what this whole book is all about— developing inner confidence and communicating that fullness of being in ways that draw others to you. You will learn how to be fundamentally at ease in your own skin. Sophisticated mysteriousness: Several chapters in the book make reference to just how important it is to be subtle in a playful way. The look of mischief that has laughter and delight in the eyes: A whole chapter of the book is devoted to helping you use the eyes as a window to the untamed wildness of soul.
This is a very interesting way of calling out to the primal in the opposite sex. Relaxed vulnerability: If you want to transform yourself from someone who is too afraid, ashamed, or uncomfortable with the opposite sex, to someone who is bold and tries new things, this book will show you how you too can realize carefree fearlessness. You will feel comfortable to put yourself out there partly because you feel secure enough to just be yourself. Wit and humour: The entire book is about learning how to be generous with your time and your presence.
Human warmth—sincerity, genuineness, simplicity, openness, empathy, and approachability: You will learn how to express strong and authentic emotions, and affection. This will make you a much more interesting person who brings joy, fun, and inspiration to those around you, which will in turn make them want to be around you.
Exuberant vitality: Whether you call it living with passion, intensity of soul, drive, or bounce, it is all about responding to the basic impulse for a life that is fulfilling, satisfying, and purposeful.
You will learn how to positively overflow with a genuine appetite for life—and for living. The other part of your appeal is your ability to offer something more. The second half of the book shows you how to send a strong signal that can create more interest and more attraction. As with any skill, you cannot become proficient simply by reading a book about it. Practice is essential in becoming a natural in the use of the art of seduction. To make the information in the book as immediately useful as possible, each chapter includes exercises to assist you in reflecting on and further integrating the principles in the book.
I have also included many examples from my own personal experiences and those of my clients. Hopefully they will inspire you into deeper reflection and life-changing decisions.
The mystery of this forgotten and long-misunderstood timeless ritual may well be what you need to free you to be more whole and more passionate about life, and to stir you out of a depressed, lackluster, exhausted, or indolent state, into a state of excitement and industriousness in other areas of life. This is what I am supposed to say or sound like. Even experienced daters agree that the pressure to cause a particular effect on a potential partner can sometimes be too much.
The traditional one-sided model of seduction in which the seducee is a passive participant to be impressed or even coerced places the responsibility for obtaining results too much upon the seducer. In some cases, what initially were good intentions simply regress into coercive power. The answer is actually more obvious than you might think.
In our society, a tremendous amount of resources are devoted to persuading, influencing, requesting, enticing, cajoling, demanding, exhorting, and manipulating others to further our ends and accomplish our own purposes. This includes people asking you to buy products and services, telling you where to spend more money, showing you where to go and when to go, suggesting how you should think about things, advising you on the ideologies to believe, and so forth.
It seems everywhere you turn there is someone who wants you to do something and is trying to get you to do it in a way that is advantageous to them. Force-influencing styles and persuasive appeals are all part of this wider mentality—How can I get what I want? Who can I get it from? Who is less likely to resist? What technique can I use to break down resistance?
Et cetera. We all have at some level or other suffered from the disastrous effects of force-influencers and persuaders, and it would be easy to point out many spheres where our attempts at bonding with others have been more manipulative and selfish than loving and selfless.
Some people are so wrapped up in force-influencing or coercive persuasion they are not even consciously aware of when they are doing it. Men and women who worship at the altar of force-influencing or coercive persuasion come in different shapes and personalities.
They can be charming and genuine, flirtatious and adaptive, charismatic and verbally expressive. And they can also be arrogant and impatient, snobbish and controlling, superficial and guarded. These men and women also tend to flaunt exaggerated empathy, staged enthusiasm, and spine-chilling reasonableness—a combination that makes them a formidable force.
But this is a false sense of self-worth. When we allow ourselves to be manipulated by another, we are basically giving away our power. A person in his or her own personal power, full of self-love and self-worth, cannot be force-influenced, manipulated, or easily influenced by external forces. When you try unsuccessfully to forcefully influence someone with a high sense of self-esteem by applying external pressure on that person, the result is the creation of conflict within the individual.
In order to resolve the internal pressure he or she feels as a result of your persuading, the individual consciously or subconsciously chooses a course of action that exercises his or her own power over the conflicting thoughts and behaviours, and as a result, exhibits reactive behaviour rather than compliance. A solid sense of self-esteem can serve as a buffer against forceful external influences and pressures, but interestingly, so can very low self-esteem.
This narrows the field down to those in the middle of the self-esteem scale. Many later regret having been taken in and wish they were more skilled at resisting the smooth talk of others. The result is a gnawing sense of uncertainty. Most people learn, cut and bail out. To many of us, it looks as if there is no choice in this.
Art of Seducing Out of Fullness
Women want men who can step outside of their boxes and are daring. And that my friends, is very, very so seductive indeed!. Most of the stuff they recommended would at best make a guy feel bad for you, and at worst make a guy burst into laughter at your weird behavior. She creates desire in others, both through her vibe and through seductive action. I see his point of view.
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